I know of married woman who have been married for more than 20yrs and has never made a joint decision with her husband in their matrimonial home.okay i dont get it but she says a woman should leave decision making to her husband,that its the duty of a man.I personally dont agree with that but its the way 99.9% of our mothers were brought up to see things.
But what i find really surprising is the modern day woman or young lady out there.even before marriage so many young ladies in their relationship let their men have the upper hand.i dont mean for you to disrespect your man but that does not give him the right to make decisions for you.
okay because he's the man he can do things without telling you,but you have to tell him what you want to do.trust me have been there before but i realised that come on,its 50-50 in a relationship.if i dont matter in your decision making,then you dont matter in mine.sorry for been so crude but men should know that long gone are those days,this is now,deal with it.
xoxo
Just Love Me
6 years ago
3 comments:
I totally agree with the 50-50 thing. In every relationship, I think the 2 people should be involved in everything they do and should come to an agreement with whatever decision they make... that again comes down to how different people are. Some guys feel they are the man and should be in control.. Girls, you should have an opinion on everything, regardless of what it's about, but also explain to him that it doesn’t make him any less of the man that he is if u speak up....There is nothing wrong with you saying what and how you feel especially if you are not happy with his plan. But then again, some women JUST like it when their man is in control. (I know someone who calls her husband Oga) so I guess it just bores down to how comfortable you are in your relationship... nevertheless, GIRLS, IF U ARE BOTHERED ABOUT NOT BEING ABLE TO SAY WHAT IS ON YOUR MIND, NOW IS THE TIME TO SPEAK UP
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